Turn One-Night Stands Into Casual Relationships
When it comes to establishing a booty call relationship, men aren't very picky. All that is required is a relatively attractive woman -- to the eye of the beholder -- and a heartbeat.
Women, on the other hand, have a handful of horny, eager men to choose from. And it is for this same reason that they can afford to be a little pickier about whom they have repetitive sexual encounters with.
This is why some men find it very difficult to get a second or third helping. It's relatively simple to engage in a one-night stand nowadays (I call it women's "testing" phase); becoming a woman's "banging" friend is the real challenge. The difficult part is passing her trial in order to win season tickets to her bedroom.
In general, you don't have to convince a man to become a woman's thumping friend. The gender who needs persuading when it comes to taking part in a casual relationship with no strings is usually the female. After all, they have a master list to choose from. So why should it be you?
Because you're a nice guy and know how to cuddle? You make lots of money and drive a luxury car? Wrong. The only reason a woman will choose you as her boytoy is because you know how to satisfy her sexual needs just right.
You have to know how to rub her the precise way. You know how a dog raises his leg in an uncontrollable wobble when his owner tickles the back of his ear? Kind of like that.
Most women claim to love the excitement that comes from sleeping with different men, but they will always and forever favor that one toyboy whom they can count on to get guaranteed, top-notch, high quality sex. So if you want to be that man, you have to outperform her current MVP and maintain your dominant alpha male role over the newcomers (no pun intended).
To become her most valuable player, you need to do more than last for hours or get an erection on demand. For your information, there are quite a few men who can do that. You've got to give her the big "O" in that special way that satiates her sexual desires -- that's something not many men can do.
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